Christian dating sexual sin

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All you need to ask yourself is, “Is this a sexual experience? You Need to Define What a “Sexual Experience” Is But what is a “sexual experience? As far as physical actions like hugging and kissing, I leave that to you to decide.

” This is where the grey area comes in and this is where I defer to you so you can make your own choices here. Is a kiss sexual or is it a healthy emotional expression?

” Another good principle which I think can help you know whether or not something is appropriate for a Christian dating relationship is understanding the difference between embarrassment and being ashamed. If someone walks in on you baby-talking to each other, “No, no, you are my shnookems . But a healthy conviction is a sign that sin took place and you have gone too far.

If you wouldn’t do it in front of your parents, your pastor, or your younger sibling, don’t do it when you are alone. But if you would be ashamed if your actions were brought into the light, repent and sin no more.

My goal in writing the initial post was to help the single woman understand herself and how God created her. However, since sexual expression and intimacy are reserved for a marriage relationship, God gives us wisdom and grace to live pure holy lives in our single years ( married years too.) Desires and feelings are not supposed to control us and in my post, I shared several tips on how to keep yourself unmastered by sexual feelings. Because I’ve read articles where authors interpret 1 Corinthians as God’s “way out” for single men and women struggling with sexual drives.

I explained how sexual feelings in a girl are natural. No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind.

I’d personally recommend you stay away from spooning, private cuddling, and things you’d only do alone; but if you feel otherwise I’m not going to say you are wrong. But there should be no need to be ashamed about something like this.

Although the Bible does not talk about “dating” as our modern society understands the word, the truths expressed here can easily be applied: Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. All Sexual Activity Is for Marriage, But Don’t Get Married to Have Sex This does not mean if you have sexual desires for someone you are dating you should for sure get married.I do not believe that masturbation is God’s answer to singles struggling with sexual drive, for one simple reason; God does not contradict Himself.Elsewhere in the Bible, we are commanded to pursue purity of soul, body and mind.I think we can all agree that tongue wrestling, moving-climax type of kissing, or make-out type of kissing is sexual.But overall, I leave “kissing” open for you to debate as I want to stay away from rules and laws in this conversation about Christian singles going too far.

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